warm welcome (our first meeting with a case worker)

well, just a few short hours ago we had our very first meeting with our case worker. i was a little nervous going into the meeting, and i suspect andrew may have been too. ha ha. we just didn't completely know what to expect, other than lots of information and a bit of an interview. which was precisely what it ended up being. but better!

she greeted us and i was happy to see her slightly intimidating 'phone voice' didn't translate into her appearance. she is a kind, hopeful woman and i almost immediately felt at ease, with no pressure to 'perform' or act a certain way.  

we met in the newly renovated area of social services, and chatted first about our own personal experiences with adoption, and friends we've known who've adopted. kind of gave our own impression. then we talked a bit about our own personal journey and how we've come to the adoption decision.

she walked us first through the process of adoption here in SK. at this point, the wait time to get in for a homestudy (aka being released for homestudy) is 3-6 years. Of course, this is a rough statistic and an change at any point. of course, if one is willing to submit an adoption application that has a wide range of acceptance, chances of being released sooner are higher. 

we also talked a bit about the application itself. it's lengthy and a bit overwhelming. we'll probably take a week or two (maybe more) to figure it all out and decide on what we can/can't accept. 

here's what my email said to our case worker, as i emailed her an hour ago:

It was so great to meet you today! Really helped me feel positive about our future child and solidified my feelings about domestic adoption. Thank you for being warm and welcoming and willing to answer all our questions.

another step in the journey = done!

a meeting

on friday we finally got the message we'd been waiting for - an intake appointment with our (OUR! YAY!) case worker. in other words, we were contacted by a social worker, and are scheduled to meet with her in one week. This appointment is an opportunity to sit down with a SW to discuss the reality of the children in the care of Social Services. At the end of the meeting, we'll be able to take home the application and get it filled out. And officially apply!

i'm anxious to get it filled out and proceed on our way with domestic adoption, especially since our projected wait time could be up to seven years. Deep breath....